After spending 19 years in Malaysia, this Korean woman carries a deep sense of longing for the country that raised her. Its where she grew up, built her identity, learned the language, and shaped her worldview. But her journey in Malaysia wasn't always smooth.
Despite spending most of her life in the country, she was often still seen as a foreigner. That feeling of being "in between" left her confused and out of place at times. Yet, over the years, she learned to embrace both sides of herself, her Korean roots and her Malaysian upbringing.
Today, she reflects with gratitude on the experiences that shaped her: the rich culture, the warmth of the people, and the lessons learned from navigating life in a country that became her second home. These experiences helped mold her into the person she is today, a blend of both worlds, comfortable with her dual identity.
Her message to others in similar situations is simple yet powerful: your feelings are valid, and you are not alone. Its okay to feel conflicted, its okay to cry, and its okay to embrace all parts of yourself.
For those who have grown up between cultures, her story is a reminder that identity isn't about fitting into one box, it's about cherishing every experience that shapes you.
