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Woman Shares Her Miscarriage Story About Her Baby's Last Goodbye

22-Mar-2023
By JustineG

Indeed, having children is a wonderful blessing.


Yet, for one Malaysian, it was an unfortunate scenario that she miscarried when she was 12 weeks pregnant.



On Twitter, Nurin shared her experience of losing her child and how her husband's experienced the final goodbye.


Just about 20 minutes before she unexpectedly gave birth, her husband went out to buy them lunch.


But before that, her husband had sensed an odd odour in the air, and it had even followed him to the point where he could smell it inside the car.


It was then when she delivered the baby and she texted her husband to come home.



When he arrived back, he confirmed that the odour was the same as what he had smelled coming from the car and that it had been stronger ever since the baby had been delivered.


He also recounted how, when out getting lunch, he felt like he was being followed.


Nurin, on the other hand, was still in pain and so startled by the situation that the little information about it barely even registered in her head.


The smell didn't hit her until she got in the car to go to the hospital, at which point she realised what her husband had been trying to tell her the entire time.


Her husband interpreted it as a divine sign and speculated that it may be the baby's way of saying its last goodbye to him.



A few days prior, the doctors reported that there was no heartbeat and since then, she was unable to get any sleep at night due to contractions.


She has heard things fall, her Macbook charging on its own, a spoon tinkling on a glass sound, and other noises that seemed to be kids playing.


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Her sister speculates that it may be because the baby's spirit has passed away but the body is still inside of her; perhaps this is why it is still lingering around.


She has the impression that the kid is playing with her at home. She counters that no one except Allah would be able to know the truth and they can only assume that that was the truth.



Nurin had a dream about entering a huge, spacious white house where she saw a young girl playing alone on the floor with her toys a few days after the baby had gone.


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She had two "coconut tree" pigtails and a pink dress on. She couldn't make out the kid's face, but when she finally stopped in front of her and turned to face her, she disclosed that the girl had Down syndrome.


She went on to describe how she was in excruciating pain and had a risky pregnancy in which she was bleeding nonstop for weeks at a time.


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It went from Suspected Ectopic, Threatened Miscarriage, Missed Miscarriage then Complete Miscarriage. 



She added that she continued questioning God why this had to happen to her and how it was her first child after learning that the baby had a 50/50 chance of surviving from the doctor.


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As a result, she connected the dots and assumed that the dream she had about the young girl was a way for her baby to comfort her and that God was responding to her prayers by letting her know how her kid wasn't doing well.



It has been three months following her miscarriage, and she and her husband still talk about it and mourn their loss.


No matter the situation, Nurin makes an effort to remain optimistic and hopes that everyone would pray for her to have a healthy kid the next time she gets blessed.

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