Hey, hey, ladies! Whether you are single, alone or want to reignite the romantic spark in your relationship (that has been going on for like forever), this is the thing for you! Below are 5 traits that make a woman likable by both men and women. Let’s go through them now! You may win your crush’s heart because of this.

【1】A Queen At Heart - Independent

No, your eyes did not fool you. Men are more attracted to self-reliant women than young delicate girls.

They have a strong personality and do not conform to what others think of them. So, men see them as a great challenge and would want to know them more. But keep in mind that there is a fine line between being independent and hard to please.

An independent woman always has the courage to speak her mind.  When you ask her where she wishes to go for dinner, instead of replying you a ‘whatever’ and keep whining after you have chosen a restaurant, she will just tell you the place she wants to eat at. When she does say ‘whatever’, she really means it. You are free to reserve tables at any restaurant you like then. And that’s part of the reasons why people love her.

【2】Sometimes adorable

Yes, this seems to clash with the above independent Queen personality. But no, we are not trying to ‘split’ your personality. What we meant was to be a woman who shows some irresistible girlish features once in a while.

As smart and independent as you are, there are times when you should be ‘vulnerable’ and cute, looking all helpless and powerless to be more approachable. And guess what, guys would LOVE to offer you help!

【3】Have a BFF

Having a bestie in your life is the most wonderful thing in the whole universe! Why? Let us tell you:

1. A bestie is like an endless encyclopedia. She will show you all the fun new things in the world, aside from giving you opinions (which is very important).

2. A pretty bestie is your best teacher for makeup, fashion, etc. And the best part is, she would do it for FREE!

【4】Fun to be around

Compared to Goddesses and Princesses, friendly women are more approachable. As much as a guy can’t take his eyes off of hot girls, he actually prefers his girlfriend to be more ordinary. Over time, the more he realizes that the cheerful and easy-going woman who has always stayed by his side is the source of his happiness. How can he not love her, right?

Therefore, the key is to give him no burden. Let him be himself in front of you.

【5】A supportive emotional trash can

When he shows his vulnerable side, it is time for you to make good use of your ‘maternal instinct’. No matter it is your crush or someone you dislike, stay with him and listen to him in his time of need. Also, don’t forget to cheer him up. Men, too, are emotional. If you treat him gently, he will leave a special place in his heart for you. Don’t doubt it, this is how they did it in the dramas.