Is sex getting repetitive for you? Don‘t despair, and no, your sex life isn’t in shambles. You simply need to be open to trying new things and re-visit old techniques that were once enjoyable to you and your partner. If you don‘t know where to start, here a few exciting tricks to having intense sex that feels like the first time:
1. Massage Them At All The Right Spots
Not the usual kind you have in mind, though. There are a few spots on your body that tend to go overlooked, such as:
• Wrist
• Behind ears
• Shoulder blades
• Behind knees
• Temples
Touch, or lick (whichever appropriate) your partner gently in these areas and watch them get real excited. Once you've got them hooked, try this: sensually graze their feet, especially their toes and ankles. Gently rubbing these areas can increase one's libido and trigger the production of estrogen and testosterone, Reflexology experts say.
2. Use Oral Sex Condiments
Take your oral sex experience up a notch by adding some delicious condiments into the mix. We're talking whipped cream, Nutella, chocolate syrup, whatever delicious dessert you have in the kitchen. Smear it all over and go to town with it! Just make sure to clean up after.
3. Try The Kivin Method, Or The Sideways Oral
Ladies, the next time your man wants to go down on you, ask him to try the Kivin method; which is simply the act of moving one's tongue side-to-side on someone's clitoris— a technique that will drive any clitoris-owner crazy.
4. Stir It Around
Although this position isn't exactly groundbreaking, still it isn't practiced enough. Instead of the usual missionary position, get on top and let yourself do the thrusting and "stirring" while he stays still. Not only is this a great way to navigate around your G-spot, but it'd also be a nice break for your partner if they're always the one doing the work.
5. Don't Undress Yourself
Instead, let your partner does it for you. Sometimes, the rush of it all makes you want to undress in a second and get right into it. However, the key to maintaining excitement in bed is anticipation— by letting your partner slowly undress you and letting them choose which part of your body needs to be bare and which they want to leave to their imagination before really peaking in— the thrill of it all will make the sex feels like it's the first time, every time.
You see, sometimes, it doesn't take much to keep things interesting in bed. As long as there's passion involved!
