Not all your friends are good for you, and toxic friendships, in some cases, grew from the purest of place. Whatever it is, it is important to identify that decaying spot in your life, and bid goodbye if you must. 

1. They Undermine Your Accomplishments 

"Congrats on the new job! I personally wouldn't go for that particular company, but you know... good for you."

"You got on the dean's list? Not surprised, the marking system got pretty lenient this semester I heard. Happy for you though!" 

One of the most clear-cut indications of jealousy among your peers is their tendency to diminish your successes. The first to cut your celebrations short every time you bring good news, those always a little too quick to trample your trophies— pay attention to that kind. 

2. They're Obnoxiously Competitive 

How to know if your friend is toxic: they turn everything into a competition— especially ones you didn't sign up for. They make it a personal mission to "beat" you in all aspects, which could be emotionally draining for both parties. This type of friends would scoff in secret (sometimes even publicly) whenever someone pays you a compliment. Not a good one to keep around.  

3.  They Rarely Compliment You 

This one isn't too hard to figure out. It's almost as if they'd get an allergic reaction if they even attempt to say nice things about you. Start befriending people with true intentions, and you'll see how refreshing it feels to be uplifted by people who genuinely want to see you win.  

4. They Hate It When You're Under The Spotlight

Have you ever been in situation where you're the center of attention and suddenly this other "friend" of yours shifts the conversation and redirect the topic back to them? 

If you've said yes then bingo, you've got one toxic friend. It can also apply to other situations where you feel like they're always striving to dim your light just to brighten theirs. 

5. They See You As A Threat

Have you ever been excluded from their plans, or have they ever refused to introduce you to the person they're dating?

These are just some of the examples that a "friend" may display if they register you as a threat. They don't invite you to parties or get-togethers in fear of you stealing the attention, or they're hesitant in introducing you to their partner over some ridiculous paranoia that you might steal them. 

If you've faced similar situations, then bestie we've got news for you. 

There's always a clear indication of whether or not a person is poisonous for your mental health: observe how you feel after spending time with them. Toxic people are like a black hole: they suck out the joy in you, leaving you in a constant state of mental exhaustion. If someone makes you feel that way, it's time to burn the bridge.